Promote What You Love Instead Of Bashing What You Hate

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In life one lesson that we must all be willing to learn is how to focus our energy on the things that we love instead of focusing our energy on the things that we know will never be a part of us.

Instead of talking badly about others, speaking down on situations that are unbecoming, and just being negative overall, we must commit to acting on the positive things in life that we have interest in.

Spending time focusing on negative aspects in life will only lead us closer to destruction, while spending our time and efforts devoted to acting and living positively will only lead to helping construct a better life for ourselves, and the people around us who we are able to inspire as well.

So make efforts to promote what you love, instead of bashing what you hate, life is too short to do anything but spread love.

Believe Me

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Why do wake up every morning, look yourself in the mirror and say all the things you hate about yourself? How about for a change you say all the things that you love about yourself like your smile because that’s something that brightens my day. Just remember that no one has beauty and no one ever will. Beauty is what lives inside of you, your soul.

Never Blame Any Day In Your Life

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Every day that we live, can be a day in which we learn a valuable lesson to take with us for the rest of our existence, if we are willing to make a full fledged effort to participate in and learn from every moment we experience. Dont place blame on the days of your life. There will be good days that will bring you happiness, and there will be bad days that will leave you discouraged. Make an effort to do the things that made you happy on your good days on the bad days that you experience, so that maybe you will be able to turn the worst of days and the worst of situations into positive ones. Never take for granted the importance of each day you are given new life, and always remember that each day is a day that you can create a new beginning, and a better life for you and everyone around you.

Forgive Them Even If They Are Not Sorry

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When you are able to forgive others, even if they are unapologetic for the wrongs that they have committed against you, only then will your mind truly be free. Those who are willing to hold grudges against those who trespass against them are only doing their own selves a disservice. Being unforgiving to someone doesn’t benefit any person at all. It causes pain to be experienced over and over again that just doesn’t need to be thought about on such a high level.

Being unforgiving also tends to distort a person’s viewpoint on life as a whole. Instead of being able to take risks, and see opportunities for what they really are, those who are unforgiving take less risks, and only see what life is from their own point of view, since they are less willing to trust in others and their experiences. So forgive, forgive when they apologize, and when they are not sorry, doing so will free your soul, and let you live to reach your greatest potential.

 

There’s Always Something Good In Everyone

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“Everyone may not be good, but there’s always something good in everyone. Never judge anyone shortly because every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.”
 
Not only is judging wrong, but it also opens a scope upon ourselves opening up our own lives for examination when we are willing to do so. Not everything that everyone is willing to do may be good, but that doesn’t mean that there is no good whatsoever in the person.

When we go through life we have to remember that everyone has a past. There are many who we will see who we have no clue of the things that went on in their pasts to help make them who they are today. People may have experienced things in their lives that we could never imagine. Sure, your past shouldn’t be what determines your future, but we have to be willing to see the good in people regardless of how we think we can judge them, because we will never be able to correctly judge another person.

You’ll Never Learn If You Don’t Make Mistakes

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Choosing not to be brave enough to tackle the challenges in your life that may end up hurting you, will definitely end up hurting you in the long run when we refuse to even attempt to take those risks. Sometimes the best way to learn is from our own past experiences, and if we have no eye opening experiences that we committed in the past, chances are we are going to encounter future instances and challenges in our lives that we will have to learn from one day.

Going through our lives we have to remember that it sometimes takes knowing how failure may come so that we can best avoid it and receive a victory. Excelling in life means that we must be brave, and that there will be mistakes we make when we are going for what is in our hearts. We don’t ever really know what success really means until we have failed before seeing success.

 

Making Mistakes In Life

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Making mistakes is just a part of a life that has been well lived. When we deal with the making of mistakes in our lives we must realize that making a mistake doesnt at all mean that we have failed, instead it means that we have a lesson to take with us for the rest of our lives, a lesson that can be used by us in order to prevent failures in the future. Be a leader, always correct the mistakes you make, while learning from them at the same time.

Be bigger than the mistakes you make, be big enough to admit them, learn from them, and advance your life by correcting them and never committing them again. Most of all, never lose confidence by committing mistakes, be sure that you recognize that the choices you make that come from your heart are choices that are always going to take you the places you want to go, no matter what speed bumps lie ahead on the road to success.

 

Choose To Be Happy

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“If you are trapped between your feelings and what other people think is right, always go for whatever makes you happy, unless you want everybody to be happy except you”
 
Being happy is ultimately a decision we must all make in our lifetime. Letting ourselves be confused by what other people want for us to do with our lives, and living out what we know is right in our heart is something that we can’t allow. In fact, it is probably most beneficial if we at least create some distance between the people and ourselves in our lives that don’t support our dreams.

If you allow someone who doesn’t believe in you to pull you away from your dreams, then they will. Your happiness is your own to find. Do the things that are pleasing to your heart, and work hard to inspire and bless others. The life you have should be cherished, and should be treated as a gift by everyone who is given it. Live life as yourself, and as yourself only, for it is the only way you will gain true happiness.

Stepping Out Of Your Comfort Zone

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“To get something you’ve never had you have to do something you’ve never done”

Continuing to do the same things over and over again will more than likely always yield the same results as the times before. In order to reach new heights, you must climb higher than you have ever climbed. In order to see new places, you must travel to lands that you have never ventured to. In order to meet new people you must be willing and open to go meet people that you have never met before. In order to get things that you’ve never had, you have to be willing to do things that you have never done. Remember that in life a person that is willing to grasp the concept that change is inevitable, and that delighting in new experiences will allow a person to delight in life overall, is a person that will see much more success than the person who is not willing to take life by the horns, and that is resistant to change and taking risks.

If Everything Was Easy Nothing Would Be Worth It

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The things in life that we work the hardest for, will be the things in life that we will remember and cherish the most, while the things in life that come to us with no struggle, will be memories made that we will remember sparingly. Your work ethic is a good indicator of the type of character that you have now and will develop in the future, and is also a good indicator that a person has reached high levels of maturity, because not everyone agrees with the fact that the things that come easiest arent always worth accepting. It takes a hard worker, a worker who is willing to roll up their sleeves instead of turn up their noses in the face of adversity, to make value out of the things that they know that they must work towards in an effort to make their life, their life, instead of just producing a meaningless one.